I inspire and support couples in expanding their relationship well-being through heart-centered communication practices and in-the-body exercises.
To provide couples with simple feel-good tools to ensure a nourishing, stable emotional home climate for raising healthy, happy children.
The Heart Intelligence Relationship Coaching Method:
Relationship Tracking practice, Yes/No Physical Embodiment practice: Connect to your own physical/emotional/energetic life force first: i.e. feel your juice!
Create a safe container through agreements: Heart IQ Agreements are suggested, and can be modified by the couple.
Be or become a responsive and engaged Partner: The Five Love Languages Practice, Check-in Responsiveness practice.
Become self-aware and relationally aware by learning the 7 Laws of Emotional-Energetic Couple Dynamics. (ex. “Whatever I repress, you will express for me.”)
Acknowledgment Practice: Acknowledge what isn’t working and the dynamic in which there are two parts.
Disillusionment Practice: Schedule a Dare to Share time for sharing disillusionment, needs, and feelings.
Create joy in your relationship by physically moving together: Polarity dances: weak/strong, leader/follower, giver/receiver, pursuer/pursued. Notice how joy returns as you trade off these polarities.
Integration: Determine what stage of the relationship you are in; repair, reconnect, recover, rediscover, and determine which practices are appropriate for you at this moment.
Can you imagine the “what I want is” of both partners actually coming into being?